The Grown & Liberated Love Club™
Where The H*ll's My Husband? Ep. 17
EPISODE 17 • SEASON 1 00:30:27
Where the hell IS your husband? Spoiler: he is NOT on a bro podcast, in a Reddit thread, or at an incel meeting trying to figure out if you're a 7 or an 8. This week we're inspired by Raye's brass-band anthem and using actual Harvard-adjacent science to talk about why specificity is the cheat code, why "I just want a good man" is settling energy, and why your husband isn't late... you just may not really want one.
References
• Locke, E.A. & Latham, G.P. "Building a Practically Useful Theory of Goal Setting and
Task Motivation: A 35-Year Odyssey." American Psychologist, 57 (2002).
• Locke, E.A. & Latham, G.P. A Theory of Goal Setting & Task Performance (1990).
• Locke, E.A. & Latham, G.P. "New Directions in Goal-Setting Theory." Current Directions
in Psychological Science (2006).
Song Featured:
• "Where Is My Husband!" by Raye (Human Re Sources, 2025). Written & co-produced by
Raye and Mike Sabath.
Interview Referenced:
• RAYE in conversation with British Vogue, September 2025.
Links:
• Apply: candiceharperlovecoach.com/grown-liberated-love
Musical Theme Arrangement: Wes Kilgore
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